Got any theories on what the secret thing might be?
I think it’s discovering a really goood potat recipe that is also vegan.
I think it is to take a nap.
I volunteer to test this theory… for science!
Please do report your empirical findings, brave slumbernaut
The secret thing is: go to therapy
It doesn’t fucking WORK!!! source: have gone
I feel you on that unfortunately. I think therapy works for people who are good at gaslighting themselves, but beyond that everyone is SOL. I also think it can be useful for very specific problems (like I had a friend who went because she had panic attacks) that are easy to identify. If you have more vague, nonspecific issues, then therapists are lost as to what to do and therapy itself becomes useless.
I’m gonna try again soon tho we’ll see.