One that supports the latest standards, though I’d suggest a Gl.iNet router if you don’t know much about networking as OpenWRT is quite confusing.

And it’s an official flatpak! I’ve been waiting for anything better than that portable junk before.

I understand everyone needs to do what they need to do for their family. However, you need to understand that Apple is closed source and has been proven to not adhere to the privacy toggle option you might enable. You cannot trust them/their devices to respect your privacy.

IVPN, Mullvad, or Proton. Criminals aren’t necessarily smart, I remember a ghost phone that criminals thought were secure and it was a honeypot. Shoulda used Graphene for free.

No. Just install GrapheneOS for free yourself